Sometimes You Need to Turn off the Noise in Publishing

February 22nd, 2015

Recently I’ve seen several blog posts from highly successful authors who have some sort of agenda that assumes their way of publishing is THE WAY to fame, fortune, and forever happiness. Here’s the truth. What works for one author doesn’t necessarily work for another.  You may be thinking that XYZ author is super successful, so that is obviously the path to the yellow brick road where there are rainbows, unicorns, and ruby shoes, but stop to think for a moment. Regardless of how super successful XYZ is  he/she most likely got their start several years ago.

In other words, it didn’t happen overnight, no matter what super successful XYZ might state. Whether XYZ published independently or with one of the large corporate publishers- that person quite likely got their start several years ago. At the time that XYZ author published either as an independent author or with a corporate publisher, the strategies that worked for XYZ author back then may no longer be relevant for a debut author now.

Consider this: When I wrote HOW TO MARRY A DUKE in 2008 indie publishing wasn’t considered respectable. It was called vanity publishing. Clearly a lot has changed since 2008. Lots of authors are indie publishing these days and are finding success.

Finally, I spent ten years in corporate marketing, and the best advice I can give you is to write a damn good book.  I will also tell you that you shouldn’t spend hours on promotion. Make a sensible plan and – this is really important – make connections with your readers.  Don’t view it as work. View it as an opportunity to learn more about your readers (aka your target market).

I sincerely hope this blog helps. If you’d like to know more about marketing and promotion, let me know and I’ll blog about it periodically. May the Magic Romance Fairies be with you!


February 20th, 2015

Be sure to visit the sites as there will be giveaways and reviews.

February 23rd

Books N Kisses – Spotlight & Excerpt

Manga Maniac Cafe Top 5 List

Give Me Books – Review & Giveaway

Romancing Rakes for the Love of Romance – Spotlight & Excerpt

February 24th
 – Spotlight & Excerpt

Buried Under Romance – Spotlight & Excerpt, Review

BookHounds – Review & Giveaway

AsthePagesTurn – Top 5 List

February 25th

Cocktails and Books – Spotlight & Excerpt

Smut and Bonbons – Spotlight & Excerpt

February 26th

Bookworm 2 Bookworm – Q&A

What I’m Reading – Top 5 List

Mary Gramlich – Spotlight & Excerpt

A Bluestocking’s Place – Spotlight & Excerpt

Romance Junkies – Spotlight & Excerpt

Book Reviews & More by Kathy – Spotlight & Excerpt


February 25

Ramblings From This Chick – Top 5 List

Cocktails and Books – Spotlight & Excerpt

Smut and Bonbons – Spotlight & Excerpt


February 26

Imagine a World – Spotlight & Excerpt, Review

Taking Time for Mommy – Review & Giveaway

Forever Book Lover – Spotlight & Excerpt

Historical Romance Lovers – Review & Giveaway


February 27

Bookworm 2 Bookworm – Q&A

What I’m Reading – Top 5 List

Mary Gramlich – Spotlight & Excerpt

A Bluestocking’s Place – Spotlight & Excerpt

Romance Junkies – Spotlight & Excerpt

Book Reviews & More by Kathy – Spotlight & Excerpt

Regency Dancing – The Importance of Courtship

February 7th, 2015

While doing research for WHAT A DEVILISH DUKE DESIRES, I learned that dancing in Regency England was not just for fun. Courtships took place at balls and assemblies in Jane Austen’s time. Here are some fun facts about dancing and courtship in Regency England.

  • Dancing was an extremely important social accomplishment, and any gentleman with two left feet was sure to embarrass himself and others. It’s little wonder that the Bennet girls were horrified by their cousin’s  bumbling on the dance floor.
  • Balls and assemblies were one of the few activities that men and women could enjoy together.
  • Learning to dance properly was de riguer and considered one of the genteel and polite accomplishments.
  • Fashionable schools sprang up to ensure ladies and gentlemen did not make a faux pas.
  • The wealthy such as  lady Catherine de bourgh hired private dance masters.
  • A family like the Bennets might well have shared a dance master. Such a scheme made it more affordable and it also assured sufficient partners, which was necessary for teaching.
  • Interestingly, children as young as ten years were sometimes taken to balls, but their families made sure such children learned the right etiquette.
  • The Duchess of Devonshire organized morning classes so that young ladies who lived near Chatsworth could practice and master the dance steps.Now for your entertainment, here is a video of the Hampshire Regency dancers!



January 5th, 2015

Since we have to wait until February 24, 2015 for WHAT A DEVILISH DUKE DESIRES, I thought you might enjoy an excerpt from Harry and Lucy’s book. Yes, Lucy is a new character, one you’ll meet soon. I love all of my characters, but Harry and Lucy touched me more than I could have imagined.

I”m so excited to share their story with you soon. There’s no better month than February for romance.  I’ll keep you all posted on news about the book. Also if you haven’t signed up for my newsletter yet, you’ll find a link on the home page of my website. Also, you can always reach me by email:

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Stay warm!



Royal Wedding Dresses

October 10th, 2014


October 5th, 2014

I cried the whole time I wrote this scene.


Regency Waltzing

May 7th, 2014

Lives of Victorian Servants

January 11th, 2014

This is 60 minutes long, but absolutely fascinating. I hope you enjoy!


My Do Over Advice

July 24th, 2013

Do OverAt the recent RWA national conference, I joined my fellow historical writers Grace Burrowes, Katharine Ashe, Kieran Kramer and Tessa Dare on a panel called The Do Over. In this conference workshop, we spoke about lessons learned. I thought I would share my part of the workshop here with all of you.

When I began speaking, I gave advice to unpublished writers. The truth is it’s hard to keep your behind in the chair if you don’t have some sort of accountability. I suggested that they might commit to writing at least 100 words a day for 100 days. It may not be the best 100 words you’ll ever write, and you most certainly have to write far more than that once you’re published and on deadline. So what is the point of 100 words a day for 100 days? Habit. That’s right, you develop the habit of writing every day using this simple tool. I did this while writing my first book HOW TO MARRY A DUKE–and I sold it. Now on to the rest of my speech.  ~

First, forget the regrets. What you need in this business is:

  • A healthy sense of humor
  • Fabulous writer friends who understand in a way non-writers can’t
  • A damn good agent
  • Moxie

In the words of Eleanor Roosevelt: “You must do the things you think you cannot do.”

Such as:

  • Promote your first book while packing for a move.
  • Write a book in six weeks.
  • Do 50 blog hop stops while on deadline. (Don’t ask.)
  • Finish a book at 4:30 AM & on the same day travel to a literacy event in another city.
  • Agree to teach a virtual class and somehow manage to check the ‘homework’ you assigned for all 600+ attendees.

Yes, all of the above really happened.

  • Laughter helps, but sometimes a hug is needed. Be there for your friends when the writing life gets tough. They will reciprocate.
  • The best advice I can give you is:
    • Kick fear to the curb. It is a writer’s greatest enemy.
    • Focus only on what you can control.
    • If something isn’t working, find a solution. If there isn’t one, move on.
    • Be kind to others and share.
    • Celebrate your friend’s good news, and she will do the same for you.
    • Ring your bell. Sung to Anita Ward’s famous disco song – “You can ring my beeeell-ring my bell.” In other words, you need to promote, and when you do, make sure your editor, agent, and publicist know about it. In marketing, perception is reality.

Finally, for your entertainment I present the Worst Review on the Planet. I happen to be the lucky recipient. I’ll paraphrase the rant since the ‘reviewer’ cursed in almost every sentence: “Woman, you need to stop writing, and stop writing now.” For the record, Goodreads declined to remove it because they didn’t want to censure the reviewer.

Yep, a good sense of humor definitely helps.

1810 Waltz

July 2nd, 2013

This isn’t what I pictured at all!